Best friend quiz
How well do you know me?
This is our take on the best friend quiz: answer ten questions about yourself, get a link, send it to whoever claims to know you. Ninety seconds, no signup, and your answers never touch a server.
How well do you know me quiz
Start
First, what should your friends call you?
Ten questions about you. You will get a link at the end.
Question 1 of 10
Your quiz is ready.
Send this link to anyone who thinks they know you. They answer the same ten questions, guessing what you said, and get a score out of ten.
Nothing here is stored
Your answers are packed into the part of the link after the #. Browsers never send that part to a server, so it travels from your message straight to your friend's browser. We could not look it up if we wanted to, and there is nothing to delete later.
Works on any phone. No account, no email, no app to install.
What the score actually means
Every question has four options, so blind guessing lands around two or three out of ten. That is the floor, and it is worth knowing before anyone takes a low score personally.
- 0–3: about what chance would produce. You have probably not had much unstructured time together.
- 4–6: real knowledge. This person has been paying attention in the ordinary moments, which is where most of it comes from.
- 7–8: unusual. Either long history or someone who listens more carefully than most people do.
- 9–10: rare enough to be worth saying out loud to them.
Why a low score is not what people assume
Knowing someone's coffee order is a by-product of repetition, not of effort or affection. It comes from being in the same room often enough that details accumulate without anyone trying. That is why old friends who now live far apart often score badly, and why someone you met eight months ago through a standing weekly thing can score well.
The pattern behind it is consistent: closeness is built by regular, low-key contact with the same small group, not by occasional big efforts with many people. A standing Tuesday beats a better idea that has to be organised from scratch every time. If a score came back low, the honest read is usually that the two of you have not had enough unremarkable hours lately, not that the friendship is failing.
If that describes most of your friendships at the moment, the connection quiz separates the three things people usually blur together: how often you see anyone, how well anyone knows you, and whether plans ever happen without you starting them.
Ideas for who to send it to
- The friend who insists they know you better than anyone.
- A sibling, which is usually funnier than expected.
- Someone you have known for years but see rarely; the score is often a useful surprise.
- A group chat, where it becomes a leaderboard on its own.
The kind of questions it asks
People searching for "how well do you know me questions" usually want a preview before committing, so here is the actual shape of it. All ten are about ordinary texture rather than milestones, on purpose: a birthday can be looked up, but a coffee order is only known by someone who was actually there.
- What is my ideal Friday night?
- What do I order at a coffee shop?
- Given a free day and no plans, what would I do?
- What am I most likely to be late for?
- How do I take bad news?
- Which is most true of how I use my phone?
- Handed a plane ticket with no destination shown, where do I go?
- What am I like before coffee?
- Which compliment would I actually believe?
- How do I really feel about a cancelled plan?
Each question has four options, so the quiz itself shows the actual choices, not just the prompt. Building it takes about ninety seconds and there is nothing to install.
Questions people ask
How does the link work without an account?
Your ten answers become a short code after the # in the link. That fragment is the one part of a URL browsers never transmit to a server, so your answers go directly from your message to your friend's browser. NexSpark never receives them.
Can I see who took it and what they scored?
Only if they tell you. Nothing is stored anywhere, so there is no results dashboard. Your friend sees their own score and can screenshot it or send it back. That is the whole system, on purpose.
Can I change my answers later?
Not in an existing link, because the answers are baked into it. Build a new quiz and send the new link instead. The old one keeps working for anyone who already has it.
Is it free?
Yes, entirely, for both the person building it and the people taking it. There is no signup at any point.
Is this the same as a best friend quiz or a friendship test?
Yes, same idea under a few different names. Whether you call it a best friend quiz, a friendship test, or how well do you know me, the format here is the same: you answer questions about yourself, a friend guesses your answers, and the score tells you how much attention they have actually been paying.
Made you want the real thing?
NexSpark Friends puts you in a Circle of four to six compatible people near you, around something you would actually leave the house for, seeing the same faces repeatedly, which is how the score above gets high in the first place. Free to join and free to meet. Find your Circle →