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What has friendflation actually cost you?

Enter roughly what you spend on seeing people. We will tell you what the same social life cost in February 2020, and how much of the difference is friendflation rather than ordinary inflation.

Free, no account, and nothing you type ever leaves your browser.

Eating out

What you personally pay, including tip. Your share, not the whole table.

Drinks out
Events

Include booking fees, because they are part of what you paid.

The big ones

Travel, accommodation, gift, outfit, the lot. These are excluded from the inflation comparison below, because no CPI series covers "being in someone's wedding party."

Friendflation has cost you

Your social life, per year, today
The same social life, at February 2020 prices
What it would cost if these had only tracked general inflation

Where it went

CategoryYou spend nowSame thing in Feb 2020Risen by

How this works, and what it cannot tell you

You supply the prices. We supply the inflation. That division is deliberate, and it is the honest way to build this. The US Bureau of Labor Statistics does not publish average prices for services, so there is no official figure for what a restaurant meal, a cocktail or a cinema ticket costs in America. Any calculator claiming to know what your night out "should" cost has invented that number. This one asks you instead, then applies the published rate of change.

Every multiplier below is the ratio of two real, published CPI index values, not seasonally adjusted, US city average. February 2020 is the last month before the pandemic. June 2026 is the most recent release.

Applied toBLS seriesFeb 2020Jun 2026Multiplier
Meals outFood away from home (SEFV)289.781395.6331.3653
Drinks outAlcohol away from home (SEFX)359.716456.8341.2700
EventsAdmissions (SERF02)392.645503.5461.2824
Comparison onlyAll items (SA0)258.678333.9521.2910

Index values pulled from the BLS public data API and cross-checked against FRED, June 2026 release (USDL-26-1191, 14 July 2026). Note that October 2025 is missing from every CPI series because collection lapsed during the 2025 shutdown; it does not affect these figures, since both endpoints are real published observations either side of the gap. The Admissions series moves about a percent month to month with no trend, so treat the events line as approximate.

What this is not. It is not a budget, a benchmark or advice. It cannot tell you whether you spend too much, because there is no such thing as the right amount to spend on your friends. It excludes weddings and group trips from the inflation comparison, because no price index covers them, so those are simply added to your total and left alone. And it assumes your habits have not changed since 2020, which for most people is not true. The point of the exercise is the gap, not the total.